Thursday, June 12, 2008

LOVE TRIANGLE. Beware of it!!!!!!

Have you ever involved in love triangle or expererience of love triangle? Most of women in this world don't want to experience this. When a man involve in love triangle, they will tend to thinking about having wife more than one. In muslim world, it is call polygamy. Islam has emphasized that taking advantage of the permission of polygamy is conditional on the observance of several factors and circumstances. If the man lacks those material and moral conditions, or he is not competent enough to satisfy all of them, then he will not be eligible to take more than one wife. Also, Islam has emphasized that the basic objective of healthy marital life comes from mutual love and benevolence between the husband and the wife which normally can be found in the form of regular marriage - monogamy. Preservation of that cordiality, stability, and purity in the family life can be seen clearly in the Al-Qur’an doctrines as well as in the sunnah of our prophet, Nabi Muhammad S.A.W.

According to wikipedia, a love triangle is a romantic relationskip involving three people. While it can refer to two people independently romantically linked with a third, it usually implies that each of the three people has some kind of relationship to the other two. The relationships can be friendships, romantic, familial (often siblings), or even pre-existing hatred between rivals. Addition of bisexual or homosexual characters adds many possible combinations of sexes, and of romantic and sexual interactions.

The term "love triangle" almost always implies that the arrangement is unsuitable to one or more of the people involved. A similar arrangement that is agreed upon by all parties is sometimes called a triad, a type of polyamory, although polyamory usually implies sexual relations. Within the context of monogamy, love triangles are inherently unstable. Unrequired love and jealousy are common themes in love triangles. Though rare, love triangles have been known to lead to murder or suicide committed by the rejected lover.

For men, poligamy is sound like having a ferrari or having a big house in Las Vegas City. Something that they wait for so many years. But they are not thinking about the feeling of their couple. It is really hurt you know... Women would never have accepted polygamy. I respect for the one who accept it because she must have a big heart and more n more patience. the women try to be brave, but no woman is able to share a husband whom she loves with one or more other women. Only a few of the women involved in polygamy asked for a divorce simply because it was not a popular thing to do lorr.....

I pray everyday that i will have a lovely husband and i am the only wife that he has. So, we will stay happy forever and ever without a crazy women (widower like Rohkiah-HRD, Integrated Device Tech (M) S/B, Bayan Lepas Free Industrial Zone Penang and Sue-Subang). This is the women who have intention to destroy my relationship with my fiancee. Fow women in this world, you better becarefull with this desperate widower.

WITHOUT YOU - MARIAH CAREY

No I can't forget this evening
Or your face as youwere leaving
But I guess that's just the way
The story goes.....
You always smile but in your eyes
Your sorrow shows
Yes it shows.....

No I can't forget tomorrow
When I think of all my sorrow
When I had you there
But then I let you go
And now it's only fair
That I should let you know
What you should know
I can't live,If living is without you
I can't live,I can't give anymore
I can't live,If living is without you
I can't give,I can't give anymore

Well I can't forget this evening
Or your face as youwere leaving
But I guess that's just the way the story goes
You always smilebut in your eyes
Your sorrow shows
Yes it shows.....
I can't live,If living is without you
I can't live,I can't give any more
I can't live,If living is without you
I can't give,I can't give anymore

*This song i dedicate special for my fiancee...

Tips for true Love...!!!

The most importance person in my life is my beloved fiancĂ©e, Zinazharee. He brings light and joy to my life beyond measure. He is my everything. I can't live without him even a second. For the 25years, this is the first time that i found the true love in my life. For me, true love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes. Its is not easy to find true love. There is so many this things happen to my relationship. We have been together for 4 years. It is not easy to be me. With him, i learn how to be more patience, how to be more understanding, and many more. But the most important is how to make myself better than other women. I give him the answer why he must choose me as his wife.

The best way to tackle your love is by you seek ways and means of helping his lonely side by trying to fill it up with sense and feel of such pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness; which he expects and gets in return by being loyal and attached to his parents.Work hard with labour, industry, and efforts for the purpose of taking the burden of worries; off his heart and mind; of that of seeking and gaining such pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness; for his self; which he expects and gets in return by being loyal and attached to his parents.. Share his worries and concerns by practically working towards removing them. Practise by learning to be qualitatively gratituous to his parents and by being concerned as well; for their well being, pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness; like he him self is towards them. You only can do it and have to do it; since nature has vested such abilities in women only.Give a new focus and direction to your natural abilities; by re- focussing and re-directing them upon his parents; instead of driving them for seeking ways and means; and for trying to tackle the husband; for making him attentive towards the self. Let him know; but with pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness of his parents; that you have shifted your focus from your own expectations of care and love from him for your self and the child if you have, and have instead given it a new focus, direction and reason; that of being gratituous to his parents and concerned as well about their well being; and all this for the only purpose of helping him remove the worries of his self from his heart and mind. Do not be very explicit and loud about all this. Let him judge it his self; by seeing the qualities of pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness of your self working in the hearts and minds; and actions and activities of his parents instead.If your efforts are truthfull you will find that he is a free and faithfull man; ever willing and ready with love, care, and attention for you.

True love is not something you can find; it's something that you feel and it comes to you. You'll feel like that person is the person you want to spend your life with forever. True love is something that comes only once in a lifetime and it's a very special feeling when it does come. Keep in mind that your true love may not be someone new, but rather someone who was there all along whose company suddenly touches your heart and soul in a way that nothing else has. True love is a blessing in which we are all meant to discover when the time and the person are right. That is what i did to my fiancee. I'm so excited to wait my wedding that will coming very soon.