Thursday, June 12, 2008

Tips for true Love...!!!

The most importance person in my life is my beloved fiancée, Zinazharee. He brings light and joy to my life beyond measure. He is my everything. I can't live without him even a second. For the 25years, this is the first time that i found the true love in my life. For me, true love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes. Its is not easy to find true love. There is so many this things happen to my relationship. We have been together for 4 years. It is not easy to be me. With him, i learn how to be more patience, how to be more understanding, and many more. But the most important is how to make myself better than other women. I give him the answer why he must choose me as his wife.

The best way to tackle your love is by you seek ways and means of helping his lonely side by trying to fill it up with sense and feel of such pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness; which he expects and gets in return by being loyal and attached to his parents.Work hard with labour, industry, and efforts for the purpose of taking the burden of worries; off his heart and mind; of that of seeking and gaining such pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness; for his self; which he expects and gets in return by being loyal and attached to his parents.. Share his worries and concerns by practically working towards removing them. Practise by learning to be qualitatively gratituous to his parents and by being concerned as well; for their well being, pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness; like he him self is towards them. You only can do it and have to do it; since nature has vested such abilities in women only.Give a new focus and direction to your natural abilities; by re- focussing and re-directing them upon his parents; instead of driving them for seeking ways and means; and for trying to tackle the husband; for making him attentive towards the self. Let him know; but with pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness of his parents; that you have shifted your focus from your own expectations of care and love from him for your self and the child if you have, and have instead given it a new focus, direction and reason; that of being gratituous to his parents and concerned as well about their well being; and all this for the only purpose of helping him remove the worries of his self from his heart and mind. Do not be very explicit and loud about all this. Let him judge it his self; by seeing the qualities of pleasantness, satisfaction, and happiness of your self working in the hearts and minds; and actions and activities of his parents instead.If your efforts are truthfull you will find that he is a free and faithfull man; ever willing and ready with love, care, and attention for you.

True love is not something you can find; it's something that you feel and it comes to you. You'll feel like that person is the person you want to spend your life with forever. True love is something that comes only once in a lifetime and it's a very special feeling when it does come. Keep in mind that your true love may not be someone new, but rather someone who was there all along whose company suddenly touches your heart and soul in a way that nothing else has. True love is a blessing in which we are all meant to discover when the time and the person are right. That is what i did to my fiancee. I'm so excited to wait my wedding that will coming very soon.

1 comment:

ONG HOCK SIEW said...

What devotion, what commitment. Your finacee is a blessed man if he learns to appreicate you for what you are to him. Learning to give is always the better answer. Keep it up